Think Positive?

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In this topic, I am not going to give you any positive thinking quotes or any philosophical lecture. I am just trying to make you understand why we should think positive and how it can help us.

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Ever thought of answering above mentioned question from your heart, 100% true? I get a big smile often when I get chance to ask this question to someone randomly. If you want to feel the same let’s try it now. Imagine that we (you and me) just started a chat online or in person, (You)Hi – (Me)Hey, how are you? – (You)If it’s a rule to give 100% true answer, what will be your answer?

Now a days, it is fact that we often try to hide our true feelings thinking that others will not like it. We always forget an old saying – “Shared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow”. In our full life time why we cannot spend a day or a week or a month full of fun and happiness, why we cannot give true reply. I always believe that all these problem arise because of ourselves only. We have lost our capacity to manage things, we are not interested to sort it out. I am sure you all get advice for any problems you have in a positive way, people around you will always ask you to think positive but what if they are on our place? Time by time all these things appears too big to handle and a person will get ready for the last two options – Sort it out or die.

While talking to many of the religious people who has thousands of fans and devotees, I fall in a mess with them often. They always say that everything is decided by the almighty lord, we are just the players. I guess you all believe in karma/deed and its effects. My point of argument is – “If everything is decided, who are we to bother, why to waste our precious life in tension of money, people, life, comforts, etc.”, on any kind of failures we hear people saying that, maybe I was not destined for it or it was not in my destiny. This means that if you get succeed, it’s your hard work & skills – if you fail, it’s your karma/deed or destiny, I really don’t think it’s fair, what you say?

I am not asking you to stop your mind and start living like a primitive man but treat yourself. Thinking positive is not a solution for all your problems but it will at least make you feel relaxed. You cannot apply magnet rule, here it is reverse – “Positive attracts positive and negative attracts negative”. If you ever feel like testing it, I would say… mmmmm… yes go for it and see what happens sooner or later.

Thinking positive is a good way to make your tomorrow better than today, I know it’s not so easy to think positive when you get your cheque bounced or you are in some serious problem but what if I can try to give you a way out. Let us go through a situation with a question, if you get a favorable answer, you win and if you don’t, my way will surely guide you to stay relaxed. Suppose, you are facing a financial problem, you have already tried your best but there is no result. After certain time you will start thinking negative, nothing is good in my life, I always have this kind of problems, this & that. Now in this situation, try to answer my question – “Can you change your condition by increasing your tension, thinking negative, live with a dull sad face 24×7? If your answer is “Yes” then you are the winner and you have some god gifted magical powers. If your answer is “No” then why you are wasting your time with that, keep on trying to sort it out with good mood and with your normal life.

When ever you fall in such situations, just try to ask yourself a serious question – “What can I do in this situation?” If you get a proper way out, go for it and finish the problem OR enjoy your life with regular efforts to come out of the problem.

Just a day before when I was writing this, I was at a hospital and I saw something was written on a paper behind a door, that was very similar to what I am trying to make you understand here. It says – For every questions you have in your life, God have only 3 answers; (1)Yes – (2)No – (3)I have planned something else for you.

I never say that one should not think negative because I totally believe that if there were no negative thoughts, parachutes have never been invented.

Enjoy life and always remember that problem is a part of every living being. Even our God faced so many problems during their human incarnation. Without a problem or tension your life will be like a journey without a destination.

Have fun! God always have a better plan for you. God bless you all for all your good wishes.